When you’ve celebrated more than a few Valentine’s Days together with your partner, you kind of run out of ideas. You’ve gifted flowers, chocolates and oversized stuffed animals — and that’s great — but sometimes you just want to do something… different.
If you really want to kick things up a notch, it’s time to give the gift that keeps on giving: couples sex toys. There’s something in it for your S.O., and a little something in it for you too. Some of these are designed to work even when you’re not in the same zip code, making them perfect for people in long-distance relationships. And, several of these sex toys are on sale right now, making it the perfect time to buy.
This bondage system includes four cuffs, four straps and a connector strap, allowing you both to go to town with those 50 Shades fantasies. The straps also slide under your mattress, so you don’t need bedposts to get going.
Shop it: Adam & Eve Scarlet Couture Bondage System, $49.95, adameve.com
This vibrator works both internally and externally at the same time to create vibrations that stimulate the clitoris, G-spot and penis at once. It also comes with a sensitive remote that allows you to adjust the intensity with the flick of a wrist.
Shop it: Lelo Tiani 3, $169, lelo.com
The Fin is a revolutionary, top-rated toy from the female-friendly company DAME. It slides onto the fingers and offers dual sensations, three speeds and an optional tether so it can be used during solo sessions or partner sex.
Shop it: Fin Finger Vibe, $74.95, babeland.com
A penis ring is a great way to dip your toe into the couples sex toy world. It’s small and non-threatening, and it has something that’s sure to please both of you. This ring has a top-mounted vibrator for her that goes through nine stages, and a stretchy rubber ring to help keep him harder, longer.
Shop it: Big O Multi-Stage Vibrating Penis Ring, $14.95, adameve.com
The Magic Wand is a classic, best-selling sex toy that never goes out of style. You can use this on her clitoris and his perineum, doing double-duty in the bedroom.
Shop it: Magic Wand Cordless Vibrator, $139.99, lovehoney.com
If your partner digs crafts, this is definitely a project they can get into. The DIY dildo kit allows you to make a soft rubber dildo of your penis, with optional vibrations. The kit also comes in several skin tones, and even a funky neon purple hue. You’ll have a blast making it together, and even more fun using it.
Shop it: Clone-a-Willy Kit, $44.95, adameve.com
The We-Vibe Unite has a special contoured shape, so it can fit between you and stay in place while your hands are free to do other things. The vibrations are designed for clitoral, G-spot, and penis stimulation, and the remote can be passed back and forth between you.
Shop it: We-Vibe Unite Remote Control Rechargeable Clitoral and G-Spot Vibrator, $99.99, lovehoney.com
This kit offers up several toys in one. There are fur-lined cuffs for bondage, a mini massager vibrator with four different head attachments, a mega-stretch penis ring, wax-play candles, a “love mask,” warming massage lotion, edible body paint and a couples coupon book with suggestions on how to use it all. You’ll get more than a few nights of fun out of this one.
Shop it: Sex Therapy Kit, $19.95, adameve.com
The Liberator gives a 27-degree angle of elevation to allow for more contact with her clitoris, deeper penetration with his penis and a range of new sex position options. On a practical note: The champagne foam inside is soft enough for comfort but firm enough to support both of your bodies, and the outside cover is removable and washable. It’s also an incredibly versatile, non-threatening toy — perfect for beginners.
Shop it: Liberator Sex Position Wedge, $99.99, lovehoney.com
For those times when you just can’t choose one toy, there’s the vibrator sampler. This gives you three different toys in one package, including the G-Gasm Delight Vibrator (which is designed to target her G-spot), Eve’s Slim Pink Pleaser Vibrator (a realistic shaped vibrator with clitoral nubs at the base) and A&E Intimates Personal Pleasurizer Vibrator (which targets the G-spot and clitoris at the same time).
Shop it: Vibrator Sampler, $39.95, adameve.com
There are definitely enough toys in here to keep you both busy for a weekend — and then some. This kit has 11 different toys, including a G-spot vibrator, rabbit vibrator, anal beads and two penis rings.
Shop it: Wild Weekend Mega Couple’s Sex Toy Kit, $69.99, lovehoney.com
Bliss balm is infused with peppermint and essential oils that are designed to promote blood flow to the clitoris for increased sensitivity, and the balm serves double-duty as lube. It also comes in a festive tin that’s so pretty it doesn’t even need wrapping.
Shop it: Bliss Orgasm Balm, $14.99, lovehoney.com
This stretchy silicone ring slips over his penis and features vibrating rabbit ears to stimulate her clitoris. Unlike many other penis rings, this one is USB rechargeable. It also has a removable bullet vibrator for additional play.
Shop it: Charged Ohare Ring, $54.95, babeland.com
This luxury toy is covered with smooth silicone for a second-skin feel. The slim curve slips inside her and gives both partners the choice of six good vibrations during sex. At the same time, the outer curve stimulates her clitoris.
Shop it: Lelo Noa Luxury Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator, $99.99, lovehoney.com
This vibrating egg is wrapped in silicone for silky-smooth feel. It also comes with eight patterns of waves and pulses, and has 12 levels of adjustable intensity. The egg has a remote control that can be used from eight meters away, so you or your partner can get the party started before you’re even in the same room.
Shop it: Desire Luxury Rechargeable Remote Control Love Egg Vibrator, $62.99, lovehoney.com
The Manta is a velvety toy that’s designed for the penis, but works great on both of you. It’s contoured to hug his penis and deliver intense vibrations via six intensity levels and patterns. While it can be used solo, it’s also perfect for oral and penetrative sex, where it can stimulate both partners.
Shop it: Manta, $139.95, babeland.com
This is a must for couples in long-distance relationships. The We-Vibe Sync is a slim, wearable toy that hugs the vagina and vibrates against her clitoris and G-spot, and his penis. The toy can be controlled by a remote or via the free We-Connect app that your partner can use from their phone, no matter where they are in the world.
Shop it: We-Vibe Sync Remote and App Control Rechargeable Couple’s Vibrator, $199.99, lovehoney.com
If you’ve been mulling over the idea of bringing light spanking into your bedroom, this is the toy for you. This paddle has two textures — silky satin and tough leather — to allow you to experiment with the sensation that feels right for you. It also has a wrist strap to ensure it won’t go anywhere while you explore other things.
Shop it: Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle, $24.99, lovehoney.com
Really want to splash out in the couples sex toy department? Look no further. This kit brings you two best-selling products — the We-Vibe Sync and Tango — a G-spot and clitoral-targeting vibe and bullet vibe that can be used on you both. The Sync also connects to the free We-Vibe app, so you can pleasure your partner from anywhere you get a WiFi or data connection.
Shop it: We-Vibe Sync and Tango Anniversary Collection Couple’s Vibrator Set, $229.99, lovehoney.com
Game night never looked hotter thanks to this adults-only experience. Nookii comes with three tiers of intensity in playing cards that invite you to explore your partner’s body. You have a time limit to complete each action, and you can use accessories like a silky scarf (included in the set) to kick things up a notch.
Shop it: Nookkii: The Hot Game for Passionate Lovers, $24.99, lovehoney.com
If you and your partner love penis rings, this is definitely the kit for you. It comes with four different rings, each with a little something different to offer. The kit also comes in more classic Valentine’s Day packaging for a fun, festive feel.
Shop it: Sexy Valentine Kit, $34.95, babeland.com
The Embrace is a slightly different take on your standard penis ring. For starters, it’s coated in waterproof silicone for a silky, real-skin feel. But its vertical design is also more targeted for clitoral play.
Shop it: Embrace Vibrating Ring, $31.99, babeland.com
The Tara is slightly different from other vibrators. While it gives you the standard vibrations, it also swirls and revolves to add a totally new sensation as you have penetrative sex.
Shop it: Lelo Tara, $149, lelo.com
The Esca is another great option for couples in a long-distance relationship or who just want to be able to play when they can’t physically be together. This is a Bluetooth-enabled G-spot vibrator that can be controlled using the remote app or over WiFi. The app offers up pre-set patterns, or you can use the screen for personalized touch control.
Shop it: OhMiBod Esca, $119, babeland.com
This penis ring is so pretty and Valentine’s Day-esque, it’s impossible to be intimidated by it. The USB rechargeable vibrator has seven vibration patterns, so you’re bound to find one — or a few — that you both love.
Shop it: Lovelife Share Vibrating Ring, $79, babeland.com